Please please help me!!!?

Don't worry, unless he can prove that you are an unfit parent, YOU will win. Believe me the Judge is gonna smile when he hears that he has a good job. No wonder you are a psychotic . From a father of 2 girls , please leave the looser NOW, Don't let him come back...PSSST buy the way he will have to pay for the Divorce and your lawyer. Wait you are not married so he first will have pay to have the child legitimized (pay for court and DNA test), before he can even try to gain custody ( different court date). With his anger issues ( and your pictures) he has NO chance. I wish you the best of luck, but it sounds like you don't need it.